Frequently Asked Questions

"I don’t want to go to a Relationship Retreat and be embarrassed in front of other people."

I can completely understand how intimidating this can be. The beauty of being able to do things digitally allows for you to feel comfortable from your own home as you work on your marriage.

My process is all about the two of you looking to and within each other and your relationship to work on exercises together to achieve healing, growth and change.

"I don’t want to go to a Relationship Coach and feel like everything is my fault / I know I am going to be the “Bad Guy”."

This is so true and so hard on people.  One of my top priorities when creating this process was to start off by neutralizing, equalizing and creating a feeling of safety for BOTH individuals.

If someone goes into something feeling like they are going to be bashed and beat down then they will be less open and things will take longer. Don’t worry.  I know you may not know how to forgive or empathize yet. We work on that through the process.

Think about this: How many times have you thought, “I just wish they understood HOW I FEEL.”  Wouldn’t it be great if you both mutually felt understood and heard by the other?

"I don’t know if I want to spend the money on this right now. We have a lot of other things going on."

There will always be distractions or excuses to put things off.  You have to decide if you value your relationship enough to invest in it as a top priority. Personally, I think our relationships are our most valuable investment.

I have created my methods with the effort to fast track you to get momentum going for healing, bonding and respect for the mutual effort that you will both be putting in.  

"I looked into Week long Relationship Retreats, but we can’t both take off a week from work right now. We’ll have to wait until next year."

I am a big fan of relationship retreats, but you don’t have to go away to a retreat to learn skills together to heal and grow your relationship.  And, once you leave a retreat, you have to keep working on things every day. This allows you to not have to wait or put things off. You can get started right away.

"I don’t want to share our most intimate embarrassing details with and in front of a stranger."

Again, I completely understand.  This is giving you the comfort of being in your own home with your spouse working on things together.  

"I’ve been before and we just sat there and talked and they listened."

This is why having exercises to work through together and tools, skills and strategies to implement are so important to me.

You will love how bonded you will become using these simple and easy to implement strategies.

"I don’t want to go to a Relationship Retreat and be embarrassed in front of other people"
I can completely understand how intimidating this can be. The beauty of being able to do things digitally allows for you to feel comfortable from your own home as you work on your marriage.

My process is all about the two of you looking to and within each other and your relationship to work on exercises together to achieve healing, growth and change.

"I don’t want to go to a Relationship Coach and feel like everything is my fault / I know I am going to be the “Bad Guy”"

This is so true and so hard on people. One of my top priorities when creating this process was to start off by neutralizing, equalizing and creating a feeling of safety for BOTH individuals.

If someone goes into something feeling like they are going to be bashed and beat down then they will be less open and things will take longer. Don’t worry. I know you may not know how to forgive or empathize yet. We work on that through the process.

Think about this: How many times have you thought, “I just wish they understood HOW I FEEL.” Wouldn’t it be great if you both mutually felt understood and heard by the other?

"If we go to a Relationship Coaching session once a week for a year, it will cost thousands of dollars"
I have kept this program very affordable and have created it with the effort to fast track methods to get momentum going for healing, bonding and respect for the mutual effort that you will both be putting in.
"I looked into Week long Relationship Retreats and they are thousands of dollars and we can’t both take off a week from work right now. We’ll have to save up and wait until next year."
Again, this is affordable and you don’t have to take time off work. This allows you to not have to wait or put things off.

You can get started right away and work things around your schedule.

"I don’t want to share our most intimate embarrassing details with and in front of a stranger"
Again, I completely understand. As mentioned in the above section about the retreats.

This is giving you the comfort of being in your own home with your spouse working on things together.

"I’ve been before and we just sat there and talked and they listened."
This is why having exercises to work through together and tools, skills and strategies to implement are so important to me.

You will love how bonded you will become using these simple and easy to implement strategies.

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